I think I just had a revelation where I realised that the one thing a person has to be for me to like them is endearing.

Which in that context is like, a superfluous word technically but I think in my head endearing has taken on this whole new definition of it’s own and I can hardly explain it, I think it has something to do with trying too hard but not in a way that like, entirely makes you forget other people or yourself. No that’s not it.

I’m going to marry someone who’s really endearing.